Most Christians want to find a ministry — that area where they can serve and effect change for the glory of God.

For Selina Meade her ministry is empowering and motivating singles to live a full emotional and spiritual life, even as they ‘wait’ for God to send them their match.

Earlier this year, Ms Meade hosted a spiritually inspired weekend called ‘Living Single ... In Faith’ that aimed to bring together singles from all walks of life.

Since then she has remained passionate about helping others become their authentic selves, so they can make significant life choices, particularly in the area of relationships.

She has a series of connectivity events lined up for 2015 that she believes will make people think and laugh, but most importantly inspire them “to want only the best that life was meant to be”.

The Royal Gazette was keen to find out a little more about Ms Meade’s spiritual walk — such as: what brought her to God in the first place and what motivates her to continue pressing on with her relationship with Christ, even when times get tough. Read on to find out what she said ...

QUESTION: What led you to God?

ANSWER: God seems to always use the theme of relationships in my life [to lead me closer to Him]. It has been through relationships — whether it be romantic, family, work and friendships — I’ve leaned and learned and each time, I draw closer as God continues to show me more — both in myself and how I’m relating to others. Overall, it has been through romantic relationships that my relationship and dependence on God evolved and continues to grow. He’s protected me from myself and also from wrong choices that weren’t best-suited for me. In all of that, God continues to show me His love for me and His grace and mercy, even when I chose to do what I wanted to do, which was not God’s best choice for me.

What’s the biggest lesson you’ve learned as a Christian?

That walking with Christ isn’t easy, but it’s harder living a life without Christ. When you continue to see God’s hand reaching and guiding you out of situations and also bringing you various blessings, you realise that there is a God and he’s looking out for you. As a child of God, He is obligated to point you in the right direction, however, true maturity becomes evident when you desire to choose the path that God is leading you to, as opposed to walking off on your own accord.

Who’s your favourite spiritual recording artist or musician? Why?

When it comes to music, I actually draw most inspiration from regular secular music that now, given my spiritual walk, has a different connotation than in the past. For example, I love Bob Marley. When I listen to some secular love songs, I’m thinking of God’s immense love of us, as his children. However, when it comes to traditional gospel artists, I prefer a medley of musical talents that include Martha Munizzi, Donnie McClurkin, Mary Mary and Kirk Franklin.

What inspires you in your walk?

I draw inspiration from Jeremiah 29:11 — “For I know the plans I have for you……”. In all that I go through, my faith and my desire to be obedient gets stronger. I draw inspiration from the fact that God knows all and He will protect me, even from myself. Even when I can’t decipher what God is doing, I’m strengthened by the fact that He knows what’s best and knows what He’s doing — in His perfect timing, all will be revealed.

What’s the best Christian book you’ve read?

Maximise The Moment — by T.D. Jakes. It’s a classic, but still relevant!

Seeing that your ministry is working with singles. What would you say is your ideal date?

It’s less about what we are doing but instead a natural flow and connection with someone. Sometimes you know you have that connection when you can even feel comfortable in silence. You don’t feel obligated to say anything but instead just enjoying the essence of being with one another in the moment. It’s great when you can talk about the silliest of things to the most intellectual topics of conversation. Being balanced is important and it’s enjoyable when you can communicate that way. The date is enjoyable when you can laugh, even about yourself, without trying to make that person laugh. Nothing is worse than when someone is trying too hard to impress — it’s a sign that they aren’t comfortable with themselves and can’t relax in just being.

If any, which character in the Bible would you most like to be like?

Esther. She was bold, obedient and beautiful. I hope to have that character of strength, daily and for all life scenarios that I encounter.