Afraid to open the bills

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    Bills: tackle them one by one

Dear Dave,

After listening to your show, I want to try to get control of my finances, but Iím afraid to open up the bills. I make about $60,000 a year, but itís a real struggle just to keep my head above water financially. My chequing account is always overdrawn, and I donít know where to start in catching up. Can you help?

ó Gail

Dear Gail,

Trust me, I know it can be scary. But the easiest way to attack this thing is by taking one slow, sure step at a time. Try not to let worry consume you in the process, either.

First, sit down, take a deep breath, and open all the unopened bills. Throw away any duplicates, and keep only the most recent statements and notices. The unknown is always scarier than the known, so facing the bills and cutting that stack in half right off the bat will help reduce a lot of your initial anxiety.

Next, letís start a debt snowball. List all the debts you owe, from smallest to largest, making one column for the pay-off balance, one column for the amount you need to get current on that debt, and one column for the single payment amount when you get current. Total each column ó the pay-off balance, the amount to get current, and the single payment. I promise it wonít be as bad as you think.

Finally, make a monthly budget. Prioritise your needs, starting with food, utilities, house payments and transportation. When it comes to your debts, pay as much as you can on the smallest one while making minimum payments on all the others.

You can do this, Gail. If youíll follow my plan, I think youíll see improvement in several areas of your life and youíll feel good about the progress youíre making, too!

ó Dave

Dave Ramsey is CEO of Ramsey Solutions. He has authored seven bestselling books, including The Total Money Makeover. The Dave Ramsey Show is heard by more than 12 million listeners each week on 575 radio stations and multiple digital platforms. Follow Dave on the web at and on Twitter at @DaveRamsey

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Published Feb 25, 2017 at 8:00 am (Updated Feb 24, 2017 at 10:55 pm)

Afraid to open the bills

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