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Dear Dr Nekia, I was wondering if you can elaborate a little more. I read your articles quite a bit but one, “What can I do if my man is paranoid?”, is what I most relate to at the moment. I am in a similar predicament, although I haven’t given my bo...

Dear Dr Nekia, When is enough, enough? Some people leave at the first signs of trouble and others stay through years of tears. How do you know when it is time to call it quits with no regrets, doubts, guilt, or feeling like you are a failure or quitt...

Dear Dr Nekia, I have been living with my girlfriend for a few months. At first it was good but now she is being so inconsiderate of my feelings. When I try to tell her how I feel about things that come up in the relationship, it is an argument. W...

Dear Dr Nekia, I want to have a serious conversation with my lady friend about our relationship. I don’t want to come across too strong or too desperate, but I would like to know where we stand. In the past, it has always been the female to ask me qu...

Dear Dr Nekia, I am a man who can admit that I have a fear of commitment. I could say that is because I have been hurt in the past or that I like to be free and keep my options open with different women, but none of that is the reason. At least I do...

Dear Dr Nekia, My man is really starting to get on my nerves. He is so paranoid about other men. We can’t even go out and enjoy ourselves without him questioning me about every guy who I speak to or who looks at me for too long. I know a lot of peop...

Dear Dr. Nekia, I fear that my boyfriend and I are going to break up. We are arguing a lot lately over my job. You see, I work late nights sometimes and it requires out-of-office work with clients who are generally male. My job does not involve any...

Dear Dr Nekia, I do not know one woman whose man has not cheated or is not cheating. Do all men cheat? Why is it so hard for them to be faithful? Should we women just accept the fact that men cannot just be happy with one woman? Sincerely, Do All Me...

Dear Dr Nekia, With all the talk of what is going on in our community, do you think that single mothers really are to blame? I hear so many negative things being said about single moms — who struggle to raise boys the best they know how — but are the...

Dear Dr Nekia, The man I am dating is always stressed. Even when things seem to go right for him, he is unhappy. As you can imagine, this takes a toll on our relationship as he gets moody and doesn’t feel like doing anything much. I like to get out ...