Dear Sir,

On May 16, we joined the global observance of the International Day of the Boy Child — a day set aside to recognise the value and importance of our boys and their development. While we pause to celebrate this day, we must also reflect deeply on the urgent need to guide, mentor and support our boys to become the responsible, compassionate and strong men our society desperately needs.

Boys, like girls, face mounting pressures and challenges. From an early age, many of them are targeted by the darkness of the streets, exposed to violence, abuse, neglect and misguided influences. Without strong moral foundations and positive role models, too many boys are left to navigate life on their own, often making choices that lead to crime, brokenness and missed potential.

Every boy needs a male role model who exemplifies integrity, leadership and love. We all share a vital duty — as parents, guardians, educators, community leaders and citizens — to create a supportive environment where our young boys can grow with purpose, build strong character and embrace hope.

I commend the efforts of organisations that are committed to changing the narrative for our boys. These organisations are mentoring, advocating and investing in the next generation. But we must admit, more must be done. The reality is that we lack enough structured mentorship programmes specifically designed for boys.

Programmes that focus more on mentorship, life skills, community service, conflict resolution, character-building and life-skills training must be expanded and prioritised. Society must actively prevent our boys from becoming statistics by creating systems that support their emotional, educational and psychological development.

We must stop treating our boys as if they are inherently strong enough to survive without help. They deserve the same encouragement, investment and protection as our girls. Empowering boys does not compete with girls’ empowerment — it complements it by building a balanced, healthier society.

As Proverbs 20:29 reminds us: “The glory of young men is their strength, and the splendour of old men is their grey hair.”

We must ensure our boys have the strength of body, mind and spirit, and the guidance to use it wisely. Let us be intentional, consistent and united in raising boys who can become honourable men.

SHERVONNE HOLLIS

Child Advocate, Cofounder

Save Our Children Alliance