The phrase “It takes a village” carries deep meaning, especially when I reflect on my own experiences. I was fortunate to grow up in a two-parent home, where love, guidance and support were foundational elements. But the influence of the village around me extended far beyond my immediate family.

Growing up, my neighbourhood was a close-knit community of people who looked out for each other. I can recall neighbours stepping in as extended family, reinforcing values and helping keep me on the right path. Their involvement helped me to understand that success isn’t built in isolation — it is the product of a community that nurtures and believes in you.

However, it was during my late adolescence, a particularly difficult period in my life, when the village became even more pivotal. During that time, it was my church community that offered me the direction and encouragement I needed. In moments of doubt and struggle, their unwavering support reminded me that I wasn’t alone. One piece of advice I received during that time has stuck with me ever since: “Those who need love the most, are usually those who deserve it the least.”

This simple, yet profound statement has shaped how I approach my work in the human services field. It reminds me to show compassion, even when it is most challenging. Those who are hurting often build walls that make it hard to see their pain, but it is precisely in those moments that they need support the most.

Today, as I serve others through counselling and mental health work, I carry these lessons with me. My journey was made possible because my village — my family, neighbours and church —stepped in when I needed them. They taught me the importance of giving back, and of being a part of someone else's village.

It truly takes a community to foster growth, healing and success.