February 7, 2002

Dear Sir,

I believe that the question is not whether we as individuals use drugs, the question is: Are we anti-drugs? Are we teaching our children that it's OK not to drink? Are we spending even an hour a month to help someone get and stay clean? Do we know that it's OK to get support when we or others need it?

Or are we instead minimising the extent of a family members drug use, because they use alcohol or marijuana instead of cocaine or heroin? Do we praise our friends when they are doing well, but can't tell them that their drug use (including alcohol) is hurting them and their family?

If we are minimising, ignoring or covering up for our loved ones and others in our community, we are supporting the behaviours and illness that is keeping them sick. Addiction to drugs, including alcohol, is a recognised medical illness. It's not a matter of will power or self-control.

Many people think that it's the counsellor or other professionals' responsibility to help those with the disease of addiction. In truth, we all have a very important part to play in helping the many addicts in our community get better. Their chances greatly depend on the support received at home, work and in our community at large. That five-minute conversation with our friend, neighbour or co-worker about their drug use does help.

Those who have the disease of addiction have an illness that drives them to lie, steal, and harm those they love most. Because the disease is so powerful and strong, the help and support also need to be strong if those in our community are going to be successful in treating their illness.

Here in our small community we can make a difference in the lives of those we see everyday. We are either supporting the illness or the solution. What side of the fence are you on?

GEORGE BOTELHO

Pembroke