Rape is a violent, aggressive, and hostile crime usually committed by men against women, but also against children and sometimes against men.

For many people, "rape'' is only if it is committed in a dark alley by a complete stranger. Quite the reverse is true. Forcible rape against women in our community is increasing. Our statistics probably account for only 10-20 percent of rapes which actually occur.

There are attitudes that still prevail that women invite rape, and either get what they want or deserve what they get. Women are often blamed for leading men on, either by their appearance or their behaviour.

THE EFFECTS OF RAPE Rape is traumatic and can be both physically and emotionally damaging. Some reactions include fear of or hostility to men, fear of diseases especially AIDS, depression, loss of self-respect, and possibly suicidal tendencies.

WHEN RAPE OCCURS A person who has been raped and who wants to bring charges must do the following:- (a) stay in the same clothes and not wash away evidence of rape; (b) call the Police on 911 or the Rape Crisis Centre on 295-rape or 295-7273 as soon as possible; (c) go directly to K.E.M.H. or a doctor, whether intending to prosecute or not; (d) get support from a family member, a friend, or the Rape Crisis Centre; (e) prepare for possible scepticism and humiliation from the community, the police and later, the courts.

True improvements are not possible without a change in social attitudes.

Remember the Rape Crisis Centre was established in 1987 when a group of concerned women and men from diverse ethnic and racial backgrounds saw the need in our community.

THE PHILOSOPHY OF THE RAPE CRISIS CENTRE We believe that through information and education, community awareness of sexual crimes can be raised, and survivors of sexual assaults can be assisted.

Rape can happen to anyone. It has been noticed, however, that persons who talk out the experience with others do recover more quickly.

Thank you for your attention. This is Cynthia Stovell inviting you to join us again next week for another health talk.

CYNTHIA STOVELL Communicable Diseases Programme