Charity calls attention to male sexual assault survivors
The Centre Against Abuse is shining a spotlight on the often overlooked realities of male survivors of sexual assault while reaffirming its commitment to providing counselling services to all adult victims.
It highlighted that “sexual assault doesn’t discriminate by gender”.
Laurie Shiell, the charity’s executive director, said: “CAA’s services also include providing support to adult male survivors who have experienced sexual assault, including those who may be coming forward for the first time after many years.
“For many men, the barriers to seeking help can be significant. Social expectations around masculinity can make it difficult to express vulnerability, while fear of judgment, shame or not being believed may delay disclosure.
“For many men, the silence is not because the impact is small, it is because the weight of it can feel overwhelming.
“They have often been conditioned to believe they should handle it on their own. But no one should have to carry that alone.”
The CAA said that when trauma is not supported or processed, it can affect mental health, relationships and overall wellbeing.
It added that the impact can present as anxiety, anger, substance use or a sense of disconnection.
The CAA provides trauma-informed counselling in a confidential, non-judgemental environment, in order for survivors to work through experiences at their own pace.
“Our role is to create a space where men can begin to explore what they have experienced without judgment,” Ms Shiell said.
“Healing looks different for everyone but it often begins with being heard, believed and respected.”
The charity highlighted that male sexual assault is often underreported and less visible because many men do not feel able to speak about their experiences.
“We have to shift the narrative,” Ms Shiell noted.
“Sexual assault is not only a women’s issue. Men in our community are also impacted. If we don’t acknowledge that, we limit our ability to support healing.
“Our goal is to support people in living healthier, more connected lives.
“When individuals are supported, families are stronger and communities are safer.”
The CAA encouraged any adult man who has experienced sexual assault, whether recently or in the past, to seek support. All services are provided in a safe and confidential environment.
For more information or to access support services, contact the Centre Against Abuse on 292-4366 or by e-mail at info@centreagainstabuse.bm.
Messages can also be sent via the charity’s social media sites. For more information on sexual assault, visit www.centreagainstabuse.bm.
