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No heart should grieve alone

The Gina Spence Programme’s Grief and Loss Awareness Day 2026. Executive director Mychel Jones is second left and founder Gina Spencer is front centre

In Bermuda, there are children growing up without a parent because of gun and gang violence.

There are husbands and wives adjusting to life after loss. Parents grieving children. Families trying to cope with illness, trauma, addiction, divorce, financial hardship and other life-changing events.

Grief touches all of us at some point. Yet many people carry it quietly and alone.

Over the past two decades, our island has experienced continuing trauma connected to gun and gang-related homicide. While public attention often focuses on the incident itself, the grief does not end when the headlines fade. It continues to affect families, friends, schools, neighbourhoods and entire communities.

At the Gina Spence Programme, we believe no heart should grieve alone.

Today, more than 100 children are supported through the Gina Spence Programme's Champions Programme after losing a parent to gun and gang-related homicide. These children are not statistics. They are young people learning how to navigate life after unimaginable loss while still trying to heal, learn, dream and build their futures.

Our mission is to bridge critical gaps in grief and loss support within Bermuda by fostering resilience, healing and hope. We believe healing becomes possible when individuals feel seen, supported and connected to compassionate care.

Through our Healing Hearts Programme, we provide accessible grief and loss counselling for individuals and families.

Through our Champions Programme, we provide wraparound services and long-term support for children impacted by homicide.

Through GriefConnect, we work with schools, workplaces, churches and community organisations to help Bermuda become more understanding of trauma and its impact and build a more grief-informed country.

This work matters because grief affects every part of life.

When grief is left unaddressed, it can affect mental health, relationships, school performance, work and overall wellbeing. It can show up as anxiety, depression, anger, isolation, addiction and emotional distress.

That is why early intervention matters.

Over the past year, the Gina Spence Programme delivered more than 300 clinical counselling sessions and provided more than 200 fully subsidised sessions to individuals and families who otherwise may not have been able to access support. More than 300 community members also participated in grief awareness and educational initiatives designed to build greater understanding and compassion around grief and loss.

The impact of long-term support can also be seen through the Champions Programme, where 96 per cent of participants graduate from high school, 91 per cent engage in sports or other positive activities, and 86 per cent participate in community service.

These numbers represent something powerful. They show what can happen when young people are given support, stability and the opportunity to heal.

But grief support cannot rest solely with the third sector or community organisations.

Back to School distribution, organised by the Gina Spence Programme

As a society, we all have a role to play. We need schools that recognise the signs of grief in students. We need workplaces that understand the impact that loss can have on employees. We need families, faith communities, healthcare professionals and community leaders willing to talk openly about grief, healing and emotional wellbeing.

The encouraging reality is that healing is possible when people are given the proper support. Every day, we see individuals and families take meaningful steps forward when they are given the tools and understanding they need.

The Gina Spence Programme remains committed to working alongside schools, healthcare providers, workplaces and community organisations to strengthen grief support across Bermuda.

Gina Spence Programme's annual Christmas Gift of Giving distribution

Grief is a human experience that will touch all of us at some point in life. How we choose to respond to one another during those moments matters deeply. Together, we can build a community where people feel supported rather than isolated during some of life's most difficult moments.

Because no heart should grieve alone.

Mychel Jones is the executive director of the Gina Spence Foundation. This op-ed is part of the Third Sector Spotlight Series, a collective campaign co-ordinated by the Non-Profit Alliance of Bermuda. The campaign aims to raise awareness of the value, impact and contributions of Bermuda’s non-profit sector

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Published June 18, 2026 at 3:42 am (Updated June 18, 2026 at 3:56 am)

No heart should grieve alone

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