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Dear Carla, I am 35 and single and I want to have children. But I am still holding out for the ‘right one’ to come along. I am not a virgin by any stretch of the imagination but I refuse to have a child out of wedlock. My parents were not married whe...

I’m often asked where I get my ideas of what to write about each week … They just seem to present themselves. There will be a recurring thought or subject that keeps cropping up, among various clients, and in my own life and even things I read or cat...

Dear Carla, Ever since my child’s father and I broke up he no longer sees or calls for our child. I was upset about it at first but then decided to stop calling him because if he wanted to be there for our child he would be. I heard he now lives with...

One of the great privileges I have as a coach, is being witness to clients as they open to a new awareness, experience a breakthrough or have one of those magical ‘Ah-ha’ moments. It can be very inspiring and I often find that what they discover has ...

Roles. All of us develop habits that we use when we communicate with others. This becomes the way we approach new things and do our work. When we interact with others we often find that the communications do not always work as well as we might have e...

Dear Carla: Life is getting harder and harder for me to survive so I really want to move to England. I don’t want to go to live off the system; I want to go to school and better myself and create better opportunities for my daughter. I have been in a...

Dear Carla, I never thought I would find myself writing to you but I am so irritated I don’t know what to do. My girlfriend of three years cheated on me. It took me by surprise because I thought we had a good thing. Guess I was wrong. When I found ou...

Passages. This past week we lost a great lady. One of the owners of Black Horse; the restaurant so well known for its local cuisine and hospitality towards our visitors. She and her husband established an institution in our island and they accomplish...