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Passages. This past week we lost a great lady. One of the owners of Black Horse; the restaurant so well known for its local cuisine and hospitality towards our visitors. She and her husband established an institution in our island and they accomplish...

Skills. From our early years we are taught how to learn and acquire skills. The skills we develop, whatever they might be, are a critical factor in what we do in our lives and what level of passion we develop for the utilisation of those skills. One ...

Have you ever gotten stuck behind one of those classic ole-time Bermudians on the roads. Identifiable as they are driving a car as old as me, that looks in better shape, and they are pootling along at a couple of miles below the speed limit — the act...

Dear Carla, I have two children who for the first time will be attending different schools. Their daddy is not very active in their lives and is hands off when it comes to their school life. Both have brought notes home and their PTA/meet the teacher...

What do psychotherapists talk about when they get together? On the one hand, they talk about the same kinds of things anybody does, especially if they know one another. One of my friends is an avid Wagner addict and periodically travels to view opera...

Think. We all know that we need to take time and think things through when we are faced with a new challenge and a new decision. This process allows us to assess our goal, develop and test some strategies to move towards the goal, and to evaluate wha...

I love the smell of newly sharpened pencils. Never mind the thrill of buying a new pencil case! I have a bit of a ‘thing’ for stationery but particularly when it’s mixed with the buzz of anticipation that comes with the start of a new year at school....

Dear Carla, I am currently with a man that I have been with for seven years. We have one child together. I have no idea where we are headed. I would love to get married and have more children but I do not see myself marrying this man. He has said th...

On my recent travels I have been fortunate enough to find myself sharing the company of several very successful people. I realize ‘successful’ lies in the eye of the beholder. These are individuals who I admire for finding great pleasure in doing wha...

Sometimes I see children in my practice. Not all children are conversational, especially with someone they have not met before. Occasionally, I will meet a bright young person, and I often find myself wondering if they have a vision for their lives. ...