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Dear Dr Nekia, When is enough, enough? Some people leave at the first signs of trouble and others stay through years of tears. How do you know when it is time to call it quits with no regrets, doubts, guilt, or feeling like you are a failure or quitt...

Dear Dr Nekia, After reading your column, I mentioned the possibility of exploring conscious sex with my husband but he is not open to it. We have been discussing things to spice up the bedroom lately but he would rather do something simple, like try...

Dear Dr Nekia, I’ve been out there playing the field for a few years but I have met somebody that I feel is worth settling down with. I really do care about her even though we are not together but she has some messed up ways towards me that I just ca...

Dear Dr Nekia, Why do women seem to age better than men, and outlive men? Also, why do married men live longer than single men? I mean, especially since I hear a lot of my married friends say, “Don’t get married mate, the stress kills you”. Sincerely...

Dear Dr Nekia, I just moved to the Island and I am having trouble with dating. Not only is dating here very expensive, but it seems that a lot of women I meet do not appreciate the dating experience. I make a pretty good salary so maybe I can look ...

Dear Dr Nekia, My daughter is beginning to show an increased interest in boys and curiosity in sex. We have a close relationship so I am happy that she feels comfortable enough to talk to me about it, but I am not sure if she is at the age where I ca...

Dear Dr Nekia, I have read a lot about how during sex it is the woman’s responsibility to make sure that she reaches orgasm, but I am not understanding this. I mean, why is so much responsibility placed upon women to do everything nowadays? We are n...

Dear Dr Nekia, I am dating someone new and because we have decided to take our relationship a bit more seriously, we have introduced one another to our friends. So far, he enjoys being around my friends, but I must admit that I do not like most of hi...

Dear Dr Nekia, Is it OK to self pleasure? Sincerely, Just Want To Know Dear Just Want To Know, If you are speaking according to morals, the answer to your question will have to be decided personally by you. You may choose to either conform to or swa...

Dear Dr Nekia, Do you think that someone who receives a diagnosis of HIV should tell their friends and family? Don’t they have a right to know? Sincerely, Right To Know Dear Right To Know, No matter the health diagnosis it’s very personal to the indi...